Thursday, 26 December 2013

Heaven-whats inside the gates?

Entry or Exit??

Hi Guys…. How have you been???

Well today I wanted to talk about an interesting topic… The topic got interesting when my friend posed a wonderful question…

The Gates of Heaven


When I was a kid I always heard people talking about Heaven and its wonders… a place which has a big gate and St.Peter guarding it with names of those whom he has to permit and those he shouldn't… because he of all people had the key to the gates to heaven…




It sounded like a fairy tale… wonderful and magical….. Always pictured heaven as a place where people could live and be happy…
Stairway to Heaven!!

So why is the topic interesting all of a sudden?? Well because of the below question:
“This life we have, and we live, is providing everything we wished for… more than the necessary too…then when we get to heaven wont we feel bored? Coz we are living our heavens on earth?

Wow quite an excellent question I must say…

Think of it… we eat what we like whenever we want… play games whenever we want… all our wishes we fulfill and make new wishes to fulfill, so what then represents heaven?

Well I feel peace is the only thing we haven’t achieved or don’t work towards achieving it..But honestly if we die today and layback in heaven with peace works alone don’t you think we’ll get bored too soon?? Especially the new “WE”… tech addictive… mobiles everywhere even in our showers, updating social media sites all the time… hanging out virtually with everyone…

If this life is the actual heaven, then what do we have after life?  A question that got me thinking…

No one has actually witnessed heaven (I mean no info, as people who have seen it never return ;)











But I found some information where people have had visions or the ones in Coma have experienced Heaven (but honestly believing is the hardest thing) Like I used to tell... Even if Jesus returns and tells the world he is the one... How many of us can believe? We will be on to proving him false as all false workers like sadhus and other religious foolers get easy and fast promotions…


So if there is a Heaven and we believe it... does that make a difference for us?? Does Believing in Heaven open the gates after death? Is believing the sole key to open the gates of heaven?? Some questions to think upon...

I guess  it all comes down to B.E.L.I.E.F… F.A.I.T.H… and H.O.P.E……

Thanks for reading guys.. enjoy...









Sunday, 25 August 2013

The Problem of Life – High Expectations


Hi Everyone…

Well have you ever experienced that people treat you different, your image is changed, life isn’t turning out to be as you thought??


That brings to the question, is it a problem with other people? Or your own?

It is debatable indeed, but I’ll put my opinion forward.
“A life without expectation is filled with surprises”

Let me start with a wise saying:

“A life without expectation is filled with surprises” - My mood always brightens up after reading this saying.



In life we have a lot of expectations (be it @ work getting praises, @ home waiting for a romantic gesture from your other half, @ life waiting for something to cheer you up), manier times theses expectation piles up one over the other.. you know what the worst part is… you’ll never be happy if any of those expectations got fulfilled, its only bcoz you will never know that you expected it once you receive it..

Life is growing shorter day-by-day, its taking away one thing at a time.. Few things changing us (people)

       1.       Love towards things and opp of love(i.e.carelessness, hatred etc) towards people
       2.     Code:- Family has been replaced to Code:- Money, Code:- Status etc
       3.       Respecting elder’s concept has started to fade away and become a joke.
       4.       People are being killed for as little as hurting ego, or for jealousy.


Well these things have changed life, but have our expectations?? 


1.       Why is it that we expect from others and nothing from self??
 2.       Why is it that we take people for granted (another form of expectations)? 
 3.       Why is it that we feel people are supposed to be this and maintain that picture (when we know that people keep changing)?
 4.       Why is it that we are hooked on to stating what is good n bad?
 5.       Why is it that we are soo afraid to do mistakes (when we know that this is the best way to learn)?

      We can go on asking questions and it can only help us wonder and nothing more than that.. We are never ready to change coz we think we are perfect and don’t need something called as ‘change’in life..
The Burden of Expectations!!

We are followers.. we follow others.. we do wat everyone does..
 1.       Love only those who love us.
 2.       Hang around only with people we care (no meeting new people)
 3.       Hate a group/ race which you don’t like and make a group and hate them as a group.





So how do we lower our expectation?? Excellent question but can we find an answer..

“There are two ways to be happy: improve your reality or lower your expectations.”
This emphasizes more on having realistic expectations and appreciating it once its achieved.
Explains to:
a.       Raise Goals
b.      Lower expectation (Expect less, learn more and absorb the new perspectives)
c.       Share your laughter (Laughter is meant to be contagious. It is intended to be shared. It is a gift that you can give to others and in the process you are giving something back to yourself. Make it an integral part of the strategy to achieve your goals to include a healthy dose of laughter. If you have forgotten how to make other people laugh, begin by making them smile. Set a goal for yourself to see how many consecutive days that you can make someone else smile. Exercise your sense of humor regularly and it will give you momentum to achieve your goals.)

  Life is beautiful… We miss a lot of things and we’re ok with it..
   1.       The way clouds move..
   2.       The way Nature takes care of itself.
   3.       The way life teaches you to make mistake and learn
   4.       The presence of the divine on top of a cliff and in silence amidst the nature
   5.       The way animals reflect to one another in the nature..
      
      Yes these are also important but we make it a point to give all our importance to work, clients, business proposals etc and the only change that makes us feel good is a job change…

We should learn to accept that life is more than just that.

Anywho.. It was nice typing this piece as it felt that I need to set my expectation towards the other side of me now.. the NATURal side of me ;)



Thanks for ready enjoy your day…

Tuesday, 30 April 2013

'Go Green', Green = Money / Earth??


                                              
"The earth is what we all have in common."

A Question - Why “Go Green”?
Why Go Green

Go Green’ sounds so healthy and reassuring that the world will not end… but… as usual even that green has caught dirt all over it.

When we say let’s go green does it answer few questions?
·         Does it benefit mother earth or only us?
·         Does it mean we are not constructing more buildings but utilizing the ones already existing?
·         Does it mean we use minimum resources in a way to get maximum output?
·         Does it mean that we are willing to sacrifice our 1000 percent comfort for our/ our children’s better future?

Nope.. It doesn’t mean anything… by simply putting up ‘green’ it turns into a marketing strategy, when in reality, they aren’t doing any great efforts to conserve nature… It doesn’t mean they aren’t helping… yes they are… but nothing greeny… only conserving green (Moolah, Money, Rupaiya)…

I’d say they are better than other companies who harm the nature.. but still doesn’t deserve ‘green’….

Do We need Super Hero's to do stuff for us?

My colleague once quoted George Carlin's Dialogue - "Mother earth doesn’t need to be taken care of… it’ll wipe us all out and take care of itself… well maybe.. but do we wait for it to happen?"

If we believe in the concept that death is anyways gonna come to us, then why live… why eat food, play or exercise? We all are future oriented but no one (I mean NO ONE) wants to take initiative to save nature….




How do we save nature? A right question, but do we have an answer… I’d love it if you could give suggestions.. Few things running my mind are:

  • Give more importance to Agriculture ( we spend soo much on marketing a product, when the rule is if its good it’ll sell itself, why waste money on it if u can get goodwill by investing in farming)
  • Show to the world that farming is a nice business (people don’t run behind success, they run behind money, and if they know there’s money in agriculture then things change…)
  • Make sure farmers get more than they’ve asked for… it’ll help them stay motivated which’ll help us stay alive and healthy…(we don’t even have to ask for food to be imported)
  • Encourage Gardening… more trees/plants help us.. (in limits of course, but looking at the present state its better if we start becoming serious about it).
  • Stop Building new buildings.. stop using land to construct (wow…this seems soo impssible)
  • Do What Japanese do (bamboo houses and products readily available from nature no conversion process involved hence no pollution).
  • Water in river and sea are built in such a way that they have the ability to clean themselves but nature can do only soo much.. if we add impurities more than the river, sea etc can take how’ll they clean themselves?
  • Switch to Cycling (reduced traffic, body fat & increases stamina)


It’s very easy to say.. but difficult to implement.. I understand that bit… but if we have to make a change then we have to be that change… But at least better than telling around that we are going green but letting the Farmers hang themselves or try and steal the land from them…

 






Nature (Earth) has been here from a loooong time even before us. It will be there even after us. So what is it that is actually bothering us? Earth can handle itself, There are a lot worse things happening to the earth (Tsunami, Earthquake , Volcano etc). When the earth feels that we are threats then it’ll have its own mechanism to get rid of the threat and live on. Moreover everything has a dead end.. all living things do die…. So how long do you feel Earth is going to last? This is another topic for another time.

To Summarize, Go Green is not converting buildings to greener or giving 5 star ratings to products, it is helping to develop a better future for the future( I don’t mean that all the greener buildings or the 5 star rated products are useless, just that the word ‘green’ doesn’t resemble what’s being done… coz it ain’t green).

So the question is… are we ready to actually ‘GO GREEN’??

What do you say… do we have what it takes? Can we crack this? Is reverse development possible??

We’ve heard about reverse innovation, reverse psychology etc… lets add another word to our dictionaries “Reverse Development”….

Thank you for your help...

Tuesday, 15 January 2013

Phase of Life: 'Missing Something'


“Sorrow looks back, Worry looks around, Faith looks up” 



Missing something....
Hi,

Have you ever felt you are missing ‘something’?? But the search only ends at ‘something’; coz u can’t figure out, what is it that you are missing??

Well am going through that phase right now… it’s like, when you are all set and ready to go, suddenly you feel that you are forgetting something… it’s that kinda feeling…

How does one overcome that feeling? Or wait, does anyone need to overcome that feeling? Ah that’s a better question…

Hmmm I don’t know… and quite frankly, thinking about the solution makes me dig deeper as to what is it that am missing, and it goes on….

So I tried my usual therapy methods, distraction, avoiding, thinking something interesting, planning a vacation, etc, but all in vain…

I even questioned myself, to check if I can get any answers…

Is it my past?


Is it my present?

Is it something in me?

Is it something about me?

Is it something to do with a place or a thing?



Nope I don’t get it…

And then it occurred to me I don’t have to understand everything in life… I just have to live it... Then why waste time thinking? It’ll come to me when the time is right….

So I decided “enjoy the feeling… instead of thinking and solving the problem….enjoy it… the secret is the solution to any problem hits you, when u least expect it ssshhhh”.



Whenever we are having fun, time flies, but whenever we are tensed/sad/worried, time goes sluggish…

So am just gonna smile whenever I think about the ‘something’, and move on…


Thank you…Keep smiling J


Friday, 4 January 2013

Amazing Journey into 2013 - Binsar (Almora)


New Year Bash…..


Have you ever felt I want to be alone, where no one talks, but nature… nothing distracts, but nature well I've had that feeling for quite some time now, hence decided to plan a trip to Almora (Binsar) for the New Year :)

I din do any kinda research for this trip, although had booked my tickets to Kathgodam from Delhi. So this trip was pretty much unplanned.

[Binsar Wildlife Sanctuary is a beautiful, quiet and wild Himalayan destination with rich natural surroundings among dense forest. Binsar is perched on top of the Jhandi Dhar hills. This place is situated 33 km north of the Almora town in the Uttarakhand state of India.
Binsar, which was the former capital of the Chand Rajas of Kumaon, is now home for a pristine mid altitude wildlife sanctuary. In the older days people came from far-flung villages, trekking on paths they themselves created to pay homage to Bineshwar Mahadev. Unlike Shimla, Nainital and Ranikhet - north Indian hill stations discovered and developed by the British, Almora is a truly Indian hill resort with its own unique flavor. (Source - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Binsar_Wildlife_Sanctuary)]

It was 10:15PM (dated 30th December 2012) when I boarded the train to Kathgodam. Lots of people chatting and having fun, I on the other hand, was busy reading a novel and passing my time. The train journey was easy – one night’s sleep to Kathgodam, during that journey I found out about Binsar, from fellow passengers and got down @ Haldwani around 5AM. From Haldwani it was one direct bus to Almora, took some fruits and got into the bus and off I went (it was very cold brrrr).

The journey was amazing with the beautiful landscapes and natural beauty; it took approximately 4 hours to reach Almora. I reached around 9AM and boarded another bus towards Binsar (it’s not a town, just a forest reservoir). It was an hour’s journey from there, with all the hill paths (snake turns) that made my stomach wooosy. 

Finally reached Binsar @ 10AM, spoke to the forest guard & paid the entry fees (150rs). Forest guard called me back and warned me “Don’t leave the road route, entering the jungle might turn dangerous as there are leopards, STICK TO THE ROAD”. I understood what he said by the tone he used for the last four words.

Trek Begins

From the gate the “0 point” (highest peak) is about 11 kms, so it was one hell of a walk. I started the journey by capturing few pics of myself (It was a beautiful place and I wanted a new profile pic for FB :)).

I was expecting to find few birds on the way, but due to the road and movement of vehicles it was difficult to see any bird or animal…

There were few villages inside the reservoir, not on the road route but somewhere interior I guess. I met few people from the village (called themselves “Kumauni” – People from Kumaon region). They had a unique language (Kumaoni) was hard to grasp anything. I spoke to them for a few minutes and continued my journey.

It was too much to walk and though I was tired and hungry I din stop to rest, bcoz I wanted to reach the top or get a glimpse of the Himalayan ranges before I rest. After couple of hours I grew a little impatient as I dint find any animal/bird in the jungle, so I took a detour into the jungle. 
My conscious had a conflict-

Jungle detour..
dude, what are you doing?? Don’t you remember what the guard said??” 




Relax if we encounter a leopard we’ll play ‘fetch’ with it, u worry a lot…



In the jungle the mighty jungle...
the lion sleeps tonight...
Well at first I found a path leading into the jungle, so followed it. After walking quite a distance the path disappeared into a thick forest, I decided to explore a little more. 20 mins later I found Spotted deer running for its life, at first I thought guess I must have scared the poor animal but after sometime I wondered was it really me that scared the deer or is there another predator. The thought scared the soul out of me… I din know if it was my instincts or my fear but all of a sudden the forest became silent (too quite) as though any minute a jungle cat might attack. I turned white with fear, but later gathered up the courage which was shattered on the ground and walked slowly ahead. Followed the same path and to my surprise found few caves… I told myself “No fear no fear no fear” and turned back and took a different route towards the road…

My body relaxed and loosened up once I reached the road… The fear and shivers had made me hungry; I walked for half an hour and had my lunch (Couple of parata’s brought from home).

The First Glimpse

After lunch, energy was restored in my body and I continued my trek. After 20 min of trekking I caught the glimpse of Himalayan Ranges. It was AMAZING, real treat to the eyes… I spent some time getting a good picture of the Majestic Himalayan Glimpse and continued the journey. After the first glimpse I saw many more in the journey…


The time was 1PM and it wasn’t hot as such, but I was exhausted. The moment I thought of taking another pit stop, I heard chitter chatter of children and guessed I must’ve reached the top… To my surprise it was the temple and I went in got some supplies (chocolates, groundnuts etc.) and filled the water bottle with fresh water. I asked the shopkeeper about '0 point', he told there are 2 ways, 1 is a short cut but it’s a steep climb, the other is 4 kms and it’s a easy route. I thought who’s gonna walk another 4 kms, lets finish it with a 1km hard trek bonanza”… and so I went through the shortcut and after an hour I reached the “0 point” all tired sweaty and legs swollen and almost numb… 


I took some time off; enjoyed the view, a little bit of sun’s heat and rested my numb legs… The sight was Amazing… one could see the entire Himalayan Ranges from there and it was the most beautiful thing I’d ever seen… I enjoyed the view for a while and started the trek back to the starting point. 



Snow...
Some interesting things i saw
While heading back I took a different route and found some interesting things, found snow (very little). Took that route until I reached Kumaon Tourist Rest House, looks nice and good price…I started walking back to complete the journey… after walking for an hour in the new route I was certain that I’m lost and I have to return back to the ‘0 point’ and take the initial route… but luckily I met a stranger and he told me you’re right, you are lost, you have to take another route I asked him if there was no way at all, as I din wanted to return so far and start afresh. He told me well this path leads to the road but there’s no route and it’s a tough trek”... That was a treat for my ears, I told him that’s good enough and started walking (falling on the way also :)).As I left the good stranger also warned me as soon as you reach the road take the right hand path as it leads to the temple…DON’T take the left hand path it leads to deeper jungle.

I reached the road after 20 minutes and took the left hand road why not try this it might be shortcut walked for some time and realized that the time was 4:45PM and its best if I don’t try new routes. So came back to join the right handed route... Finally I reached the temple and realized that the route is in the opposite direction... was glad that I din't take the other route…
I rested near the temple saw the time 5PM and decided to walk… Later I realized that it took me 3 hours to reach the temple and if I leave at 5PM will reach only by 8 PM (Dark, Leopard hunts at night, danger, am jungle food) such thoughts were running my mind… In any case I thought to continue walking… 

Every time I saw the sun sinking slowly, I was speeding up… It was 6PM and it started getting dark and there were no vehicle anywhere around… I thought I might not be so lucky this time and started walking faster… But as luck would have it, my right thigh had ideas of its own, making me stop my trek and rest.

I lost all hopes and started walking slowly converting pain into motivation for survival… after 20 min when the darkness had almost conquered the jungle. I heard something… Is it my mind playing prank or is it actually a car… I waited patiently and silently trying to listen to the sound again... Yes, yes it is a car, thank god; I will live to see New Year… I immediately waved my hand and asked for a lift… They were very kind enough to offer me a drop till the Binsar gate.

I reached the binsar gate and enquired with the guard about the bus timings... He said there are no more buses towards almora... I had to request for lifts again… it was dark and I started walking. After requesting couple of vehicles, a 2-wheeler stopped to help and advised me that it’s not safe to walk this jungle, as there has been news about tiger… He dropped me to a hotel and I rested…

Next day the sunrise was beautiful... enjoyed the warmth and started back to Delhi… my whole new year's day went travelling to Delhi… 

But for me, my new year began on 31st December, 2012…

I loved it :)