Healing Inner Self

Everyone wants motivation, everyone wants to be positive, everyone wants everything, but how many give all this back???

Ever thought of giving someone the motivation you once needed?? Help to get out of negativity and entering positivity??

That’s not the jobs of saints alone (no one is born a saint).

For a minute if we stop thinking about ourselves and just give a small look to someone else then we can muster the courage to help others.

Help is often misunderstood as requirement of money, loan, or something physical requirement.

Most of the times its just the time they need, time to listen, time to sit with them without speaking anything just sharing your positive aura…

We all have become so selfish and self-involved, we all need growth, money, luxury, serenity, peace, happiness.

But what is the best form of happiness? What is the one thing that gets us immense joy?

Living the moment? Well true but also teaching someone else to do the same, when we see others grow in this we light up and this brings us more joy than building full of money.

So then let us all take an oath to help others by offering time, share our positive aura and help people in spiritual way (not by taking them to holy places) by taking them within themselves where I believe god resides.

Let us all find god in ourselves, seek the spirit and activate it, help it sync with us externally as well.

I also believe that once this sync occurs all else will become super clear and everything will fall its place eventually.

We already have gone far away from nature creating barriers between us (rubber slippers and minimal interaction) lets try to get closer to ourselves and make our inner spirit rise and show us the path we were supposed to go to.

Let us all take an oath to do this from this very moment. Please Stand up, place your right hand on your chest – close to your heart, and say this out loud.

“I (your name) promise to give my inner self time and help it grow from this very moment until my last breath, every time I fail to do this, I will punish myself to do something that I always wanted to do and never considered. This is my oath, my promise to myself which I will keep and follow diligently”.

 Thank you so much

Woman...Unchained...

A Woman,

What do we Men know about Women?

We know for sure how to dominate them, don’t we?

But can we take a minute to think, what have we done with them?

Before we begin with anything, I have to create a link between 2 entities. (This is completely the ideas and views about Women by me, so if you get offended please stop reading).

Woman	Creator
1.       Motherly Instincts	1.       Parental instincts – always gives what we ask and takes care of us.
2.       Gives birth to another human by the most painful process the humankind has ever known.	2.       Created the world and everyone in it.
3.       Heavy Mental strength, Patience and tolerance.	3.       Always observing
4.       Bleeds at least 500 ml blood per month

There is a similarity here,

If our true creator could create and this gift was passed onto a Woman, then how on earth did they become inferior to us?

If they can handle pain much more than what we can handle (if we bleed 500 ml over a week how would we be?), how did they become the weaker species?

I feel this was known to our ancestors and hence started keeping them (Women) and their powers suppressed so that they don’t outceed us. If you check out the ways we have imprisoned them or suppressed them:

• 1.       Before anything, we kill them in the womb itself, so they don’t step into this world.
• 2.       We feed them lesser compared to the other gender, weakening them physically for our advantage in the future.
• 3.       We prove that they are dirty during their periods making them conscious and staying at home during this feeling ashamed for a process which God made them that way.
• 4.       We force them to marry a good man, who can take care of them – this we inject it through all movies, older generation and live movies at home.
• 5.       After Marriage, we show it that their family isn’t important to them anymore and husband’s family is everything for them. We steal their power of freedom by chaining them into a new location
• 6.       Objects Women have to wear after marriage – Chain on their neck, Bangles on wrist & Toe rings / Anklets etc. Observing carefully even prisoners undergo the same chaining system. Co-incidence??
• 7.       We show that Men need to be served by Women and for them their Man is their God. So even if beaten will accept, Even if tortured will tolerate, Even if treated as a tool will withstand.
• 8.       They have been taught to take care of Men since the beginning. Cooking for them, washing their clothes, pleasing them, entertaining them, making them dependent by stating that they cant work.

Why did these come into existence? Why did we steal their rights? What were we scared of? Questions I didn’t find answers to.

But I know that the times are changing and we will most surely get to see the hidden talents and the potentials they will shower on this world. Hopefully they wont fall prey to any more strategies we Men have made to stop them from unleashing their true potential. And for all we know they may finally save this world from ending.

From a Concerned Human.

Thank you for reading!!! 

To be continued...

Life... Uncomplicating it...

Complicated path??

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Life is complicated.….
Is the above statement true? 

We make it complicated…. Or is this true? 

Well I have complicated my life uncomplicated it….again complicated and uncomplicated it…. So I know for sure…. That we human, we people, we homo-sapiens complicate life.

How do we complicate life? Isn't it very simple? 

Life is actually very very simple… but if everything becomes too simple then people cant make money, people wont get power, people wont be able to show how they are better. Hence they try to complicate it for their pleasure and benefit and we fall into it blindly maybe because of ancestors belief or maybe because of peer pressure. 

• May it be education where we learn to adapt to a complicated lifestyle.
• May it be religion where we believe that our god is the best and our methods are the right path.
• May it be our tradition which we follow whose actual reason is unknown and hence blindly followed as a strict rule.

Every single step has complications….with so many chains how do you free yourself? 

With all these restrictions how do you dream free? Even your dreams are restricted now a days… 

Can you tell the difference between dreams when you dreamt as kids and your dreams now? You will find your answers as to whether you are succumbed to the complications or not…

Who knows the right method to live life? Sages? priests? Kings?…am sure no one does….no one is back from the dead….and even if reincarnated they don't remember anything about the time when there were dead and if anyone told them the secret of living life…. 

So how then do we live? How then do we uncomplicate ourselves? 

Well I follow a method, a couple of them actually: 

1. Follow your heart no matter what (with the exception if its in a hurt state, then just give it time…it heals very soon….just a little time).

2. Never ever kill the child in you….each and every thing around you wants you to kill the child and become an adult….but what is an 'adult'….just another word for complication…so never let the child die….its the only thing that's innocent, dreams from the heart, and eager to keep moving ahead… 

3. Make a Happiness recipe:- take lots of passion mix it with your dreams nicely until they become a dough, add a pinch of plan and leave it for sometime. Then roll out one portion and try to execute… if failed then take another portion and try….do this until atleast one becomes good enough to be fried and eaten…

Trust me when I say this: the meal that you eat from the above successful recipe will be the best meal of your life and once tasted you will become addicted to taste more and more of it.. 

So there you go…. Hope this helps…just thought of sharing whats in my mind….

Thank you for reading…

Satan's Key

I met this awesome gentleman from Hyderabad and had a mind blowing conversation with him. Just a 30-40 mins of talk felt like billion hours of wisdom inflow. I will never forget the day "17-01-19" which has made my new year resolution simple and sturdy. I will let you know my resolution, but first let me share what I obtained from the conversation.

How do we obtain peace? Serenity? Eternal patience and the ability to remain unbelievably calm?
Lot of us try different things, go different ways, basically experiment and learn but hardly a handful get lucky.

Lets take me for example, in search of peace I did try a lot of things, finally very few helped me get peace but I have successfully learnt to be happy, so I do reciprocate happiness for peace. But what I did, learnt and implemented also had simpler methods. But the secret again holds that - " it only gets simpler when you fall down or fail a lot, until then it's just a wise saying that no one follows".
Just like success is actually understood best when you fail a lot.

What is this simpler method that I spoke about?
Before we answer that, lets try to understand what role our mind has in our existence.

What do you think is the role of our mind? Does it channel our thoughts in the right direction?
Does it help us move on towards positivity? Peace?
What does it actually do?

Our mind plays games, tries and always succeeds in making sure we don't live the moment. I'm sure lot of you have different opinions and may disagree with me. Just read it out and see if this helps, if it doesn't, you are always welcome to share your thoughts in the comment section.

Have these things ever happened to you?

1. You are having an awesome time and suddenly something sad that had happened years ago, comes back in a flash and gets you low?

2. You try to concentrate on something important and failed?

3. You want to do something good but you end up listening to your mind, which scares you of a lot of things like especially its most favourite - "what would others think?"

So in conclusion our mind diverts, plays, tricks, and do everything just to get off our focus from the present. We have always, always tried to think and be sad about the past, think and be worried about the future, but never stopped to think and try to live the day.

So the primary source of all solution lies in understanding the right problem. Here the problem is that our minds are smart and they trick our ways to take over our selves. We have become our mind and we have to change that.

How do we do that?
Firstly, let me tell you that no one has won a fight against the mind. So how then do we win?

Once our mind gets the idea that we are planning against it, it takes it up as a challenge and outsmarts us. So just play along and listen to all it has to say and do respond positively to its suggestions but do what you actually want to do and then convince the mind that it was an error or in some other ways you deem suitable.

You can't delete your mind, neither can you replace it, but you can most definitely format it one step at a time. Slowly taking its powers away and letting it follow your ways. Because if you can direct your mind either by tricking it or by commanding it, then there is nothing in this world that can stop peace from knocking and entering your door step.

Finally, the simpler method I spoke about is "trick your mind to do what you want". That's it. It is actually a really difficult task but yet again the easiest task to do. For those who have failed in life and know the value of success it's easier than those who have stayed in their comfort zone forever.

So go ahead people stop following the mind and start playing with it. Not from tomorrow, not from next month, but from today and from now. Because if it's not now then when else?, If it's not you then who else?

My resolution for this year is to use the Satan's key i.e "trick the mind to do what I want" which will help me lock the Satan away.

All the best and let me know what worked so we can help more and more people attain peace.

Thanks for reading...