Hi,
Its a New year, but i'm still the same... still the same "me" with the same feelings, same thoughts, same attitude, same behaviour..
- What is it that changes a person?...
- How do we know what change is for good or for bad....
- How do we know the life we are leading now is good or bad..
- How does anyone measure good or bad?
- Does good mean being good to everyone or being good to self?...
- Does the person, who knows the answer, know for sure if he's correct??
People can brainwash anyone easily... they can make others think in their way, but is it right? is it good?..
I see a lot of people who feel they are right at first, but later break down... There's a saying , it goes somehing like this "World would be a happy place if people work on thier own advice" how true is this?...
Now lets check on Love:
Love is good, they say, but is it? How do we know that love lasts forever? we never live forever, do we? Has anyone understood love? How can someone love another forever? is it just words?. yes we feel happy when we say it's forever, and we know it, but deep down we know once it topples, It goes wrong..
I've never understood whats right and wrong bcoz the society which defines it, always revises it....The thing which is good today becomes bad tomorrow...
Lets take example of parents, there are 2 major types of them:
- Some feel discipline plays a major role, so they work on disciplining them. But after a while children will resent it.. They'll feel that they shouldn't treat their children this way..
- Other parents believe in freedom, giving their children all the happiness, fulfilling all their needs, supporting them in all their demands. This spoils children and makes them dunderheads.
Most of us dunno what makes us happy ( me for instance ). Something that makes me happy now, may make me sad later... Which theory can explain this?....world is always complicated, people try hard to make it less complicated.. which makes it worse..
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| What are you thinking :-) |
Nobody's perfect, nobody knows what's good & whats bad... its only perception that counts.. as the saying goes - "Live life to the fullest"..."Stop worrying and start living".
Love you all !!!! Thanks for reading....
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Society's view are relative, just like the guy next door, no wonder they change.
ReplyDeleteI still feel, deciding between good/bad right/wrong is straight forward as long you have a open rational mind.
Your question perhaps is - how does one know that a person has a open rational mind?
Well I would say, it takes a subtle mind to understand another, it is subjective!, but if you haven't got an rational mind, you can't really be sure where your decision lead to.
The idea behind this post is great! A debate on this topic would be endless- because one person's perception of 'good' may not hold good in another's!! But then again, chew on this: If there was no bad, there would be no good.
ReplyDeleteThe whole thing boils down to priorities I guess. Like you have so aptly said, "Something that makes me happy now may make me sad later." That, perhaps, is due to priorities. I believe that with the passage of time one's priorities change. If one avoid's COMPARISON, there would be less talk about good and bad!
this funda matches my thoughts :-)
ReplyDeleteyup der is no bad o gud its all ones perception! :-)
grt :-)